Feb 17, 2012

Valentine's Day came and gone....

This year, Valentine's Day seemed to be a pretty solemn affair for me. Nonetheless, I'm glad I still got the chance to spend time over the phone with you. Thank you so much for being in my life, sweetheart....

Dec 15, 2011

Addiction....

You know when you’ve had too much coffee to drink at work when your vision blurs and rubber stamps start to read like this:

Actual – Mirage

Cancelled – Caffeinated

Certified True Copy – Certified True Coffee

Draft – Decaf

Certificate of Posting – Certificate of Roasting

File Copy – Filter Coffee

I would add more but my hands are too fidgety at the moment....

Nov 8, 2011

Good start....

I received this message from an unknown number this morning,

"Hi Weng Jin, deeply appreciate you for taking extra effort to nourish and cherish G. Grateful to you ya!"

When I found out who it was from, I smiled and was ecstatic! Knowing my efforts are appreciated, for a change, makes things so different in my life.

It also made me realise that people should not demand for things to be done for them. People whom you love and are in love with you would have done it willingly anyway. There is no need to ask. And those who really love you would not ask for anything in return anyway.

Recently, I have also been asked, "Does a girl's materialistic values bother you?" I gave it some thought and said that it may to a certain extent, but as long as it doesn't bother me. I give what I can afford willingly. Honest. I absolutely have no qualms giving to those whom I love even if it means I do not own that item, whatever it may be. I'm sure some of my past "acquiantances" may be able to vouch for it.

However, if I am to be demanded for things that is beyond what I can afford, and makes it my problem that she doesn't get it, then there's where the problem lies. I honestly think that it is your own preference if Gucci bags and Nine West wedges are your kinda thing. Just don't MAKE me buy them for you. Lol.

I may end up sounding like a scrooge after this post and I guess all I'm saying is that whether it is your emotional needs or material needs that needs to be satisfied, I give what I can, and if it isn't good enough for you, maybe so am I :)

End of the day, I'm just glad my IT doesn't ask for anything, doesn't complain about anything (except that she's fat, and I absolutely think she's not, she's drop dead gorgeous). In fact, she's an absolute angel who worries about not giving enough to me. Makes me smile and know for a fact that I really made the bestest choice of my life to date.